Thursday, April 14, 2011 ♥ 1:07 PM
Respect Women.When it comes to women, I know only one way to treat them
-with respect. Not only the woman I love, but all woman.
In many instances, women tend to be relegated to the background in our lives.
But i disagree with this.
SPOIL HER
I can't say why many men seem to feel that
once love is confirmed, romance takes a back seat.
I am not sure whether it is our upbringing,
or we are too busy chasing the almighty dollar.
Either way, it's no excuse.
Call me old-fashioned but women are meant to be spoiled,
fussed over, put on a pedestal and adored.
Do you dress up for your woman?
Do you hold her hand for no reason?
Do you do the small things like open a car door,
give a morning kiss, buy a rose for no reason,
or most important of all, leave a love note on the pillow?
Making a woman feel good can be extremely enjoyable for the man as well.
You just have to remember that to women,
the little things are incredibly important.
The dinners are nice, the jewellery is nice, the home is nice
but it's the rose that will be remembered,
it's the love note that will be treasured and it's the morning kiss
that will make the best start to the day.
Having said all these, not all women are the same.
Some don't like to be fussed over because they need room to breathe.
LOVE & RESPECT
So, it is vital to take time to discover who your woman is.
If you don't know her, you can't truly love her.
More importantly, you can't respect her.
And every woman wants to be respected by the man she loves.
Respect is not only about how you treat her but how you support her,
encourage her and even take responsibility for some things so she has time for herself.
In fact, showing effort is the greatest form of respect.
Do you have it in you to respect a woman?
Can you let her go to become her own person or will she only ever be your partner?
Can you let her shine on her own?
And if so, how far will you go to help her shine?
Can you listen to her without trying to solve her problems?
(She can solve them on her own, so don't try unless asked.)
Can you open up to her about your work, life, friends...
anything that is important to you?
In short, she is more than your partner;
she would be your confidante and you, hers.
It isn't difficult. You just need to put all the personal egos aside.
If you are like me, you will believe that love does conquers all.
You picked your partner so support her, encourage her, love her
and most importantly respect her because without her,
life would be very lonely indeed.
-The Flying Dutchman*re-blogged from siping :)
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